Calculus sucks, tortoises live long and men watch porn. These are universal truths. If your boyfriend/husband is young, chances are there that he will watch it more often. It is better that women adjust to it, rather than trying to change that. Many women I know do not care about this anymore, as they know it is not because boyfriends don’t lust them, it is only because men just want to have some more stimuli. Men want to ogle at feminine body. That’s all. Don’t take it personally. He still loves you and gets excited by you. You still make his world. By watching porn, he is just taking an outside help to color this world. Period.
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I don’t think it’s a big deal at all. I have heard of a lot of woman that take away their husbands tapes or DVD’s. That’s really unnecessary… and could potentially lead to the man getting his satisfaction elsewhere.
Great Blog !!
oh come quickly the day when men put some of their focus on using this powerful energy to something more purposeful use than watching porn.
Yes its been around for a long time, but that doesnt make it right….what about evolving, growign , developing as a human being… cannot men develop so as to this energy to a higher purpose?
There are now many men, who recognise that this whole porn story/desire/need is a waste of good energy and have begun to dedicate and focus their energy to learning how to use this energy in different ways, positive ways.
I applaud them, I am proud of them and I am encouraging them. They are amazing, these newly evolved men.
We all have a responsibility to create enough awareness about it so that it catches on with the masses and reaches a tipping point where men see that learning to harness and use this powerful energy for higher more positive purposes than porn as a major and important area in which they need to evolve.
this is what i call evolution of man, the development of character, becoming more aware of habits in ones life that are just not useful or helpful.
Its happening all around us in many many different areas of life, and mens sexual energy is, in my opinion, one area that our world really needs to put some focus on.
Porn is still demeaning for women. Period. while we as women just let it keep going and going, century after century, we are not helping our men to move on from it, we are not helping our men to evolve.
Because one has learnt to have a thick skin for something, doesnt make it right. They are still women in those movies, they are still our sisters in gender. And there are still millions of women adn even children who are forced into the porn industry, the sex industry with horrible consequences. its a terrible industry all fed by mans suposedly uncontrollable sexual drive..
Bollocks I say!
I do not say its not a strong desire, I believe it is. And its a beautiful energy , if used for a positive purpose. but until one is aware, or made aware of a behaviour that is no longer for the good of human kind, one will never change it.
I say its high time that our men evolve and find a more positive use for this beautiful strong energy that they have been gifted with!!