I think it is worthwhile to remind ourselves once in a while that love is a chemical reaction happening in the brain. What you feel for your boyfriend or you for him, which is divinely called as love by some, if not kept alive by trust, sharing and passion will fade in time. It is a fact that due to many reasons love affairs fail, relationships break and people go different ways.

Love is a connection. It is a connection that strengthens with consideration and responses after the initial attraction. But for many, attraction dies after a while. It is not personal, so don’t take it personal. Your boyfriend shows alienation because he wants to move away. Accept it. You cannot buy love with tears or accusations.

All relations are not meant to be long lasting; even some good ones will/should break. It is not how great you think your relationship is that counts, but are you both compatible together or not. If not, even good relationships fail.

When a relationship ends or when he is drifting away from you, don’t try to get answers. There are no answers for many “hearty” questions. You will circle in a loop. Take your time, it’s hard, all women know it. But come back soon.

As I said earlier, don’t take it personal. Know that even Marilyn Monroe was ditched/ rejected thrice.